Ups and downs are part of our maturation. At some point we are so happy, surrounded by friends, love, support, we have everything we need. And at another point everything is collapsing. We lose friends, who were obviously not the friends we needed. We lose the support we supposed to never lose, whatever happens. We lose our smile. We lose the desire to dream and make plans for the future. We lose time in complaints. We lose ourselves in first instance. At such times, things that make us impression are just those we lose.
And what do we win?
Very often we do not pay attention to the positive consequences of a given situation. The End. The world collapses in front of us. And so what?
Not everything is chocolate & champagne.
There is no constant happiness. There is no constant success. The road is filled with many holes that we need to circumvent, that is, the obstacles we have to deal with. And if we somehow find ourselves in a hole, we must quickly find a way to escape from it. We will definitely cannot help ourselves if we sit down and start weeping and complaining about what has happened. Exactly the opposite. We have to stand up. We have to wipe the tears. We have to fix our makeup and hairstyle. We have to look where we are and to consider an action plan. We are not going to let any breakdown of our lives to break us.
Nothing and no one has the power to prevent us from being what we are. No one can stop us from doing what is on our heart. Thinking of what we have in mind. Saying what is in our tongue.
Of course, theory is very different from practice. But the important thing is when a person falls into such a not very pleasant situation, he has to find a way to cope himself and return the smile to his face.
I am one of those persons who think and think, just overthink, about people, stories, words spoken, unreadable deeds, everything that my consciousness can think of is analyzed as in a lab. But what is the benefit of this constant thinking? Definitely I only strain and earn nothing, I do not solve any problem, I lose precious time.
But hey, there are no casual things. After each fall there is a rise. As I said in my previous post – at the end Spring always comes back. So keep your head up!
And what do I do while I am waiting for the Spring? Well honestly to tell you I do not wait for her at all and do you know why? Because Spring will not come alone. In order to come, first I must be ready and have sensed that the time has come to lay the foundations for the new beginning. To feel that it is time for the flowers to blossom, the green color to appear, the sun to shine inside me, it does not matter if it is Winter outside. The important thing is that I am in harmony with myself. And how is this harmony achieved? Interesting question.
Humans are different but unique beings – do not forget that! That’s why I have my methods of breaking down the blues, the moments when I do not feel myself, the moments when I feel I’m losing faith and hope. When I get into such situations, I look fast to fix things.
A piece of chocolate, why not?
Funny meme on Facebook.
Some inspirational video from TED talks.
Music! Definitely music.
But the thing that loads me recharges is the book read. Over time and my personal growth as a person, I began to carefully select the topics and books I read. I’m not falling into fiction, battles, love novels, lots of murders, and so on. I love to read useful literature from which I can learn things, enrich my mental vocabulary, expand my common culture and self-perfection.
Two months ago a friendship began between me and Andrea (RosyChicc) – I will tell you in more detail in a future post. From conversations about this and that, there was no way we could not talk about books and each of us shared her personal treasures on the other. She recommended a lot of books to me, but I decided to start with the first one. That’s why I quickly downloaded it and at a convenient time I started reading. From the first two sentences I was impressed and told myself that this is my book, I have something to learn from it. So, page after page, chapter by chapter, I was immersed in this book. I felt so relaxed and happy as I read it.
I was very impressed, and i am glad that I had the opportunity to read it. So, it’s time to do a little review of the book & hope this inspires you and to read it too.
Tittle: Journey of Souls: Case Studies of Life Between Lives
Author: Dr. Michael Newton
Genre: Inspirational Fiction
Sooner or later, everyone wants to consider certain question: Why am I here on Earth? Where will I go after death? What happens after I die?
About the Author – Michael Newton is certidied Master Hyponotherapist, a member of the American Counseling Association, plus holds a doctorate in Counseling Psychology. He is considered to be a pioneer in uncovering the mysteries about life after death through the use of spiritual hypnotic regression. He is the author of three best-selling books – Journey of Souls: Case Studies of Life Between Lives (1994), Destiny of Souls: New Case Studies of Life Between Lives (2000) and Life Between Lives: Hypnotherapy for Spiritual Regression (2004).
In this book you can find 29 extraordinary stories from different people trough them you will learn more about:
- How it feels to die?
- What you see and feel right after death?
- More about the so-called ”spiritual guides”
- The spirit worl and soul groups
- The different levels of souls: beginning, intermediate, and advanced
- The color of the soul
- How you choose another body to return to Earth
- When and where you learn how to recognize soulmates on Earth
- The purpose of Life
After you read the book you will begin to understand the reasons behind events in your own life.
Key words: light, calmness, peace, love, protection, tunnel, white, rest, lesson, joy, delight
This book gives a sense of calmness that whatever happens we will see us again up there. There is no loss so leave the suffering and enjoy your life.
To be continued…