Round-Up: I am totally FED UP!

Today is an extraordinary day. Outside it’s snowing and there are days left until Christmas. This year was filled with lots of emotions – there was joy and sadness, some unpleasant happenings, but there are, of course, the pretty ones that when you think about them and you become very nice and pleasant. Well, with the arrival of the last month, the end of this year will come too. I am happy and grateful for everything that has happened. I learned valuable lessons from my experience and I’m stronger as a person in the future. I know there are more days in which things can happen – please just be nice!

And now I’ve decided to share something final this year, though so early. The next day, as I lay in my head a new idea turned. I began to think about things and came to some conclusions. That is why today I write my last post not only this year, but for a long indefinite time. This year I left my job, I left a university, and I said I would have time for myself, more time to write posts, edit them, take photos, be active in chats and other things, read and comment on other blogger posts. I had an almost ready plan with posts for December. I was going to attempt blogmas and be like other bloggers.

Ha! Here I realized … to be like other bloggers.

I thought that I already have a lot of indicators I am getting close to what an incredibly high percentage of bloggers around the world do. Why should I do these things? What am I winning? In fact, against the backdrop of what I earn, I realized how much I lost. I started all this, blinded by another girl, who never cares about me and what I do. Almost four years ago I have been dealing with social networks, reading blogs and writing posts. I separated four years of my life! Yes, thanks to these four years, to some extent I have perfected English, I learned to write quickly, meaningfully and on a given topic, I developed my creativity in this respect, so in school, when we had to write essays, I was the happiest. Quite simply, I love to write and think about some topics or something that has occurred to me. Why not? I first did it by looking at the others, then I started to do it with love and desire.

But! Looking at these years how everything changes, I no longer see the desire to write and share where nobody almost reads me. Yes, honestly, I did not care if someone was reading, but now I do not want to pour out my soul here, at least for a while. Yes, I’ve met virtually many people which seem to me to be unreal, but that’s the world we live in – the new age, the new wave! Separately reading some posts I learned interesting things. Maybe these are the benefits I see from this whole thing. Oh, I almost forgot – I started to make very nice pictures and after my active participation in Twitter, a lot of bloggers started to write to me on this topic. So I can summarizeEnglish, virtual friends, creative thinking, new knowledge, photographic abilities.

But I’ve generally lost my time always being the first to someone’s post to like, read and share it because that’s what friends do, is not it? But I was in error. The other day I started to read a book which says that if one does something, it is because first of all he enjoys himself, he wants to make himself happy first, no matter that in his head he will delight another person . And when the other person does not respond to his good deeds, he has no right to be angry. Apparently, these cases were not good enough, or he/she did not like them, or was not happy with what you were doing. That is, we should not want anything in return. Whoever is well-educated and human conscious will understand even the smallest gestures you make about him and will show you some gratitude. Well, I did not see such a personally! I always get tired of giving myself everything and helping others and me to wait for something.

I am guilty, so there is no point in continuing to do so.

But when you stop, and somehow the other side is already angry. I realized that all this time I was a naive fan of many bloggers and I admired them, but I learned the lesson. The real big stars, where they give them on TV, know how to be grateful to the people who support them. That’s why they’ve gone so far and people keep loving them! I spent four years on the Internet, in ten applications. I had ten apps on my phone to be productive and supportive everywhere. Finally, however, I made a simple arithmetic of how many hours I spend a day looking at all of these apps, with a lot of them help me generate more traffic for my blog. When I got a new phone for my birthday this year, I decided  to remove some of them and leave the more important ones. But again, there were some new ones that I needed and so their number was too much, I have nine apps in the folder. That’s too much, but it’s a fact.

That is, I keep wasting my time, looking at what is going on and supposedly helping to win the readers. But I was really tired. I have become too addicted to this new era, new technologies, and so on.

It’s already super-banal.

That’s why my decision is very simple – I’ll uninstall everything from my phone and focus on all the things that I also want to do for four years, but I do not have enough time or I do not have enough motivation. A lot of people say stop watching TV because nothing good we learn from there. Well, of all these social networks that have swallowed us, are our lives better? I know people who hardly watch TV, others who do not have a TV in their rooms, but they spend a lot of time on their phones. Even I watch two or three hours of television myself, but I spend more time on my phone. Even by watching a show, I’m chatting with someone on the phone. That’s what’s coming out – we’re just walking creatures that have lost their properties and their powers for a meaningful life. 

Good job Internet!

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Even the very thought that I’m writing this thing now speaks a lot – but hey, after a while things will change! Facebook has long been no longer what it was. You go in and look at total simplicity – ‘clever’ status, great friendship, whoever he has quarreled with, some pictures that make fun of some people, funny videos, and a bunch of sponsored posts already. Nothing interesting. Messenger – I do not want to chat with anyone anymore. Twitter – where everyone mumbles how many views they have, about followers, how he no longer likes that person or taht brand or that he has terrible anxiety and panic attacks, but thank God has looked at the statistics of the blog and has thousands of views – WOW! Dramas, dramas and people with sick ambitions. Well, here’s some interesting post and people to say two or three words. Instagram – with their great consistency you can not keep track of things and you miss so much that you are angry about, but you do not know why. This is the only app I’ll keep because I have some communication with people there. Separately, one application against the background of ten, sounds much better, plus there I can share photos. Pinterest – I can spend here for hours, enjoying photos of all kinds. Snapchat – to take a look at all the people stories, it takes me about an hour again … We Heart It – an inspiration for photos. I also have Page Manager for my Facebook page as well as Hootsuite, which helps me to spread my posts at Twitter. WordPress – one of the most important applications – watching stats, reading comments, answering, sharing my last posts.

So my life is on social networks, interested in the lives of other people – it’s just a waste of precious time that I will never be able to regenerate. That’s why I told my mother yesterday what I am going to do, and she fully supports me, not to mention how she smiled – it seems to be proud of me!

So I wish you all the success in your lives – the real one where things are not so pink and here, in the online space where you give great examples!

 

See you soon, maybe.

XOXO,

MOI

& just how I already said – Basic is trending, we have to bang it! – read here to understand what I am talking about.

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A Fairy Tale | Andrea’s Wedding Day ♥

The magical sensation of love sooner or later touches each of us. Of course, love can be unrelated or so strong that it does burn, and one has to think about it at all, should it be with him or her. But sometimes love is one they all dream of – fabulous, real, shared, the two people are valued, respected and loved. And the love between Andrea and Alexander is also fabulous, like a fairy tale.

The two met each other at the university and apparently have felt that sense of attraction and have heard the inner voice screaming – That’s your man/ girl! For eight years now, they are together, of course, as in each relationship they have gone through different moments, but they have stayed together. Support and understanding are key to relationships.

You already know exactly how we met with Andrea, if not – click the link here. The proposal for marriage united us even more. I remember when they went to Santorini, Greece on vacation. By uploading pictures of gorgeous dinners, sea, houses, I thought about something. I thought of Annie Jaffrey and how she and her boyfriend were on vacation somewhere in a warm place, sunny with beautiful beaches, and then he proposed her a marriage. ‘So Alexander is revealed and I will soon see a ring!’  Perhaps after two days, at night before I fall asleep, I went into the social networks. When I opened Andrea‘s story on Instagram, I saw the ring … such an emotion, such joy… as it happened to me. I was so happy for them.

Once I realized they were going to make a real wedding, not just to sign a marriage, I shared this picture in my story.

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I do not know why, I just liked it, I started to think about the wedding and yep … Well, after two months somewhere, while discussing the wedding dress, I got an invitation. I was more than surprised and happy by the fact that I would be on her very own wedding and would have the opportunity to attend the rituals. As you know, I’m not a fan of weddings, but for her I enjoyed and excited from the bottom of my heart. A month before the wedding, I got the proposal to be a bridesmaid … Ah, how happy I was. When I read the message, I did not stop smiling. I was so excited because first, if there is something I love about weddings and what I would like to be, it is certainly a bridesmaid. Secondly, I would not be a regular guest, but I would have an important role in the wedding itself. Yay!

I think it’s time to tell you more about the wedding and the preparation for it, as well as pictures from the event.

The wedding was on October 22nd, the last warm, sunny day before the steady rainfall. Here I want to say that 22 is their number because they have a lot of happenings and this number is present so that makes the wedding even more magical and special. As Andrea was preparing, a girl made her a haircut, and she made her makeup, and I was preparing myself at home. I did my makeup and my mother make a stylish hairstyle that just suits for a wedding.

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After I fixed myself, I took a taxi and quickly went to the bride’s house. Just to note that their apartment is luxurious. So stylish design, furniture, lamps, glasses, plates, everything is wonderful. I can not wait her to describe the whole process around their new apartment and to post a blog post.

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How beautiful she is!!!♥

They took care to have something to eat and drink before the moment came. I also took pictures with the other bridesmaids and met their big family.

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Then we headed for the church, where the magic itself happened, and they both serve faith and love for the rest of their lives. Because I’m extremely sensitive and I did not stop crying all the time. It was so beautiful and exciting, these moments I would never forget them. After the church, it was time for the hotel to host the exorcised ritual in which they signed again, but this time in front of all the guests, which means that besides church marriage, they have a state one too. In this ritual we have all the bridemaids and baptist involved. We had to go through the red carpet first, then the niece of Andrea brought the rings, and then Alexander and finally Andrea, accompanied by her father. Then the emotion took a high point while they were saying their oaths and putting the rings.

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After the ritual there was a welcome cocktail with champagne and some aperitifs that I could not try. It was also the time for the big photo shoot. The guests came and gave their presents, then stood under the arch with the newlyweds for a photo.

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The final part was the very celebration in the restaurant, where we all enjoyed a unique food and drank a lot. There was a salad with a camembert with raspberry vinaigrette. For an appetizer, grill salmon fillet served with pink grapefruit vinaigrette and aromatic herbs. The main thing was roasted pork tenderloin, garnished with asparagus, branded brandy and apple sauce, but because I do not like to eat so much meat, there was a risotto with mushrooms for me.

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The dessert is clear – a delicious wedding cake.

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I caught the bouquet!!!

 

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The wedding was unique. The very emotion is impossible to describe. We all enjoyed a lot and ate very tasty food… still feeling the salmon taste, ah! The last end of all this experience for the newlyweds is the honeymoon. What a better destination than the Maldives?

In Andrea’s Instagram you can see photos from there, but as I said – I expect new posts in her blog, where she will personally tell you what happened this year!

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And now I tell you bye because I’m going to university to do something very important and I’ll tell you soon more about it. I hope you’ve been able to experience the emotion while reading the post.

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See you soon.

XOXO,

MOI

 

Andrea’s Bridal Shower & How We Met

One of the best things blogging has given me, apart from practicing my English, is getting to know other bloggers from different parts of the world. Sometimes, however, people do not have to be from other countries or continents because sometimes they are from your own country, your city and are a few miles away from you. Yes, this is quite possible. I remember when I found Andrea’s blog. I was pleasantly surprised by her photographic abilities as well as her style of writing. She seemed to tell a fairy tale explaining about her favorite cosmetics, new additions, lipsticks, creams, tricks for some things. Yes, she is a beauty blogger and I was amazed by myself that I liked what she was doing. But the truth is that she does it with desire, love and special attention to the detail. And her writing is amazing. That’s why she quickly became my favorite beauty blogger and I enjoyed reading every single post of her, every new picture on Instagram. It was very interesting for me to know what was happening in her life.

When Instagram suffered a new update, it was a bit like SnapChat with those stories, then my communication with the successful blogger Andrea started. I wrote her wishes for the New Year, apart from what she was doing in her stories, I was looking to write to her. I just liked her so much that it was nice to me, and I somehow felt obliged to say some kind of opinion whether it was for a new garment, a cosmetics or a freshly prepared lunch. So in the evening of my prom, while I was in the disco, I got a notification – rosychicc started following you. You can imagine how happy I was. I will remember this moment always. Of course, I wrote her on a personal message to thank her, she was delighted, wished me success in the future because of my prom.

So, unknowingly how our communication just went on. Instagram draws people together. I never believed that one could find friends or a soul mate in online space, but here we are – she is like a sister for me

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At first we talked about the wedding, how Alexander has proposed, what she was thinking about her wedding, what kind of dress she wanted. Also for my exams and my application at University. She has experienced all this emotion with me.

So, day by day, chat after chat, we began to get to know each other more and more. When one day while I was at work, discussing the wedding dress with her, she asked me if I wanted to attend her wedding. Ah, what an emotion … I did not know how to react with excitement because we had not even seen in the real live, we did not know each other so well. I knew she wanted to make a small, family wedding only with her closest relatives and friends. When I read the message I felt very flattered by the invitation because she had trusted me on a messaging basis.

Of course I accepted the invitation and immediately downloaded an application on my phone to count the days until the wedding. I, who have never imagined herself as a bride, have never wanted to marry, and generally look pretty skeptical on this whole thing, considering how we live and how people change their minds so often, but about her wedding I was excited from the bottom of my soul.

I was interested in everything connected with the big day – where the wedding will be, how many people will attend, the menu in the restaurant, the wedding cake, what the invitations will look like, the gifts, the rings, just E-V-E-R-Y-T-H-I-N-G! It was very interesting and exciting how this whole not-easy process goes. Honestly, they have done well with everything, and I can not wait to share with you moments from the wedding, but this will be up next time.

And what is a wedding without a bridal shower? Of course, this event was also organized and was quite pleasant in the company of Andrea’s closest people – her husband’s sister, cousins ​​and girlfriends. The paty began in the evening, as we had all assembled before without Andrea in a restaurant. There we ate and drank, gave her a present, and then we went to a bar. It was a lovely moment spent with good people. Her last days as a free woman hehe.

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Andrea’s outfit

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My beautiful one

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& our little gift for her

 

Hope you enjoyed reading this post. See you next time with more pics & info about the most beautiful bride and wedding in the world!

XOXO,

MOI